We told the grandparents that we would be okay with sending Julia up for a week, but we'd like them to stay a day or two before then to give her time to warm up to them. They are unwilling to stay beforehand, and they said they don't want her to be uncomfortable. So she's not going with them. As much as a Julia-free week would be a nice break, we would have been constantly worrying about how she was coping, so it's probably for the best.
Thanks for your thoughts (as comments and in person).
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